From Trouble to Struggle
However, it's vital that a storyteller take
risks. It's vital that the tale contains tension. Even relatively small
obstacles in life, like not knowing what major to choose or being unsure of
which grant to apply for, can make for good stories. The trick is that trouble
has to be faced and amplified, resisted or engaged, so that trouble becomes
struggle.
Trouble has to become Struggle.
For a story to be powerful and meaningful, the
troubles you are facing have to increase in intensity in ways that correspond
meaningfully with your mission and/or connect meaningfully with your audience.
I'll start with a fun example and then take on something more serious.
Alumnus Daniel Burkhalter (MS/LIS) once told a
story at the annual Storytelling Festival about a time from his childhood when
his family had a big square TV. He really wanted to watch it while his parents
were away at church on Sunday nights. But every time he did, they
would catch him--trouble! He discovered that they knew he had been watching
because the TV was warm. And he came up with a plan, involving ice cubes, to
cool down the TV so that they would not know if he had been watching--from
trouble to struggle!
Struggle is what
happens when you dig in and do something about trouble. You either start
digging your way out or digging your way in deeper--either way, your audience
will want to know what happens next. If an organization faces a funding crisis,
the story starts to take off when people pull together to try something new. If
a library is devastated by a flood, the struggle to rebuild and the community
that pulls together to make it happen are key to the story.
Struggle is taking a risk in the face of trouble, and not
knowing yet whether the risk will actually pay off. That's what helps to
captivate an audience. That's also what shows commitment to your own ethics and
ideals, without your having to explain them.
You either start digging your way out or digging your way in deeper.
So when you don't think you have a story to
tell, look for a time of trouble when you took action. Whether that action had
good or bad effects will determine whether the story is funny, inspiring, or a
cautionary tale of what not to do. If you've ever had a difficulty and made a
choice, you have a story to tell.
(1) inspired by a conversation in a recent
podcast of The Moth on storytelling