girl culture and the cute and the cool
In Cinderella Ate my Daughter, Peggy Orenstein explores a wide range of questions related to contemporary girlhood, from the marketing of the Disney Princess product line to the how biological differences between male and female brains are used to justify it. Orenstein has done her homework, but the book is a personal exploration of her motherhood choices rather than a scholarly work. I don't have a daughter, but the thought-provoking questions that Orenstein raises about the world of gender and the marketing of all things pink to girls are certainly important. What stays with me most is her analysis of the Disney actress trajectory, from self-declared virgin to marketable sex symbol. As she writes: "...self-respect has become a marketing gimmick, a way for female pop stars to bide their time before serving up their sexuality as a product for public consumption." (p. 124) It may be true that, just like we overestimate young people's technical abilities on a re